Interview with Catherine Bybee
For anyone wondering about the plot of your newest release, you give a great sneak peek with the titleāWhen it Falls Apart. What is āfalling apartā in this novel?
All the threads that hold my heroine, Brooke, together are crumbling down around her. When it Falls Apart begins with Brookeās romantic relationship crashing and burning. At the same time, in a different state, her father is circling the drain in the ICU. And for the cherry on the top of her āfalling apart lifeā, Brooke has found herself demoted at work. In short, everything in Brookeās life is dissolving around her.
Like all of your books, When it Falls Apart has a beautiful romance, however, there is a rawness about Brookeās story. How was writing this novel different from your others?
If you read my notes both in the front and the back of this novel, youāll soon realize that the story was very personal to me. Rawness comes from experience. The relationship Brooke has with her father is hauntingly familiar to me and my dad. The emotions that the heroine experienced when taking care of him were easy for me to grasp onto and write about. Sadly, the love story with Luca was completely made up and I didnāt have the support of a strong Italian family to help deal with the struggles, but I digress.
Relationships with a parent who wasnāt there for you growing up are messy. When that parent ages and needs their child, sometimes that help comes with a bucketload of resentment, even if the child wishes they could stop those ugly feelings from creeping up on them. And THAT is the rawness you speak of.
Books, TV shows, and movies oftentimes glamorize what it means to care for a loved one. However, in When it Falls Apart you donāt sugar-coat anything about caregiving and the toll it takes on a person. How do you think readers who have been in similar situations will be affected by this story?
Justified. Validated. Accepted.
Itās a hard job taking care of an elderly family member. And if there arenāt other siblings to help, or wonāt help, itās made even more difficult. Itās difficult, gritty, dirty work that only has a bad endingā¦eventually. What I do hope my readers take away is that theyāre not alone. That the struggle is very real and that if they donāt find balance (which is almost impossible at times) they will burn out completely and not be fit to help at all. I hope my readers are empowered to set boundaries and balance, so they come out on the other side of caring for an elderly loved one whole themselves.
Brooke gets virtually no support from her significant other, which has her reevaluating their relationship. She realizes she has settled and has to make some hard decisions. Do you think this happens too many times to women in real life?
100% Yes! There is a song by Taylor Swift with a line that says, and Iām paraphrasing here, I can be what you want for the weekend. But often that weekend ends up being a relationship that women hold on to or are convinced they canāt live without. Often it takes a huge shake-up to remove yourself from that situation. But once youāre away from the day to day dysfunctional relationship, the easier it is to see the dysfunction.
After her breakup and move, Brooke is not looking for a relationship. In fact, she tells her best friend: āI havenāt wiped off my smeared mascara from Marshall yet, the last thing I want is to jump into anything else.ā Her crying over a man lasts all about two minutes when she meets Luca. Tell us about him.
Hmmm, Luca⦠he is the kind of man who doesnāt want a place on Brookeās dance cardā¦he wants to rip it up.
Luca is wired to help the people in his life. Brooke becomes a part of his inner circle simply by moving into the family building where he sees her every day.
Now, if Luca had flat out asked Brooke on a date, she would have run the other wayā¦so no, he doesnāt go about it that way. He simply shows up and does not leave. Not when things get tough, or messyā¦or when his own past peeks its head in. Luca is a man who is right there at Brookeās side without question or censor on why she does the things she does. His support and validation of her feelings is the part she was missing. Add in the hunky Italian single father and āMamma Mia!ā
At first, Luca is not thrilled that Brooke is renting a room in his familyās building. What changes his mind about her?
Her strength and vulnerability. I know that sounds contradicting, but some of the strongest women I know have a big vulnerable spot in their life that if you know them well enough, you see. The biggest smiles often hide the deepest pain. Luca sees her struggle and dedication to helping her elderly father and since family is first on Lucaās list, she passes his unconscious test.
Lucaās family, the DāAngeloās, are incredibly close and share everything from ownership of the family restaurant to helping care for Lucaās daughter Franny. How is this different from Brookeās relationship with her family?
Brooke doesnāt have that family. She has a father who abandoned her as a little girl that she carved out a relationship as an adult, and now sheās charged with caring for. Even her previous romantic relationship didnāt support her unconditionally the way the DāAngeloās do for each other. Sheās rather dumbfounded when they start treating her like family. Itās a wonderful thing to watch happen.
San Diegoās Little Italy plays a huge part in the story. The community, language, and food are in full display. Tell us about your own experiences in your adopted city.
I love Little Italy, the food, the pace… the people. There are many places in San Diego that are overrun with the college scene, San Diego is a college town. But Little Italy is more family friendly. Very touristy, but there isnāt a day you donāt see locals hanging out. I go to the farmerās market often. Pick up authentic Italian ingredients for my own home cooking. I try new restaurants and take all my friends there when they are visiting from out of town. Not to mention it was the closest thing to the āreal Italyā that I could go during the travel restrictions. So why not write about it and tell the world of this small island within San Diego that shouldnāt be missed?
There are two more siblings in the DāAngelo family. Where will you be taking readers next with the series?
Chloe is a yogi. Think Bali!
And Giovanni loves wine⦠think Tuscany, Italy.
I cannot wait to show you what I have in store for these two!
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Excerpt
āOh my God, Carmen. He was standing at his car first thing this morning. Like āhop in, bella, letās get stuff done today.ā Who does that?ā
Brooke had picked up the phone as soon as Luca was off in search of a dump guy.
āWeāre talking about the single, hot, Italian dad, right?ā
Brooke rolled her eyes. āYes. Luca.ā
āOy, oy, oy.ā
āStop it. I need advice. And I need it before he gets back.ā
Carmen stopped teasing. āYou donāt need advice. You need to relax. He sounds like one of the good ones. Let it happen.ā
āLet it happen,ā she mocked. āI donāt āletā things happen. It happens to me and itās never good.ā
āYou didnāt used to be such a pessimist.ā
āOnce upon a time the glass was half full. Not these days.ā
āOkay, Debbie Downer. You want my advice . . . here it is. Keep doing whatever it is youāre doing.ā
āIām not doing anything. Zero effort.ā
āReally?ā Carmen didnāt sound convinced. āMakeup . . . a nice dress?ā
Brooke hesitated. āMaybe . . . a little last night, but that was it.ā
Carmen chuckled.
āCarmen!ā
āSorry. Okay . . . any red flags?ā
Brooke thought about that. āHe loved his ex-wife.ā
āThatās a red flag?ā
āI guess not.ā
āIs he good to his mom?ā
Brooke looked back on the dinner the night before. āTo the whole family. He takes being the oldest brother quite seriously.ā
āAnd his daughter?ā
All Brooke could do was smile. āGreat dad. We should all be so lucky.ā
āHeās Italian, does he smoke?ā
āNo.ā
āA lot of Italians smoke,ā Carmen pointed out.
āIn Italy. The San Diego variety are less in that wheelhouse.ā
āThatās good.ā Carmen sighed. āI donāt know what to tell you, Brooke. How does he kiss?ā
āHe hasnāt kissed me,ā Brooke nearly yelled.
āNow then . . . we have a problem.ā
āThere hasnāt been . . . I donāt even know ifāā
āStop right there. He did not drive your sorry ass all the way to Upland to do grunt work all day if he wasnāt interested in kissing you, bellllaaa. More than that, you want him to.ā
Brooke closed her eyes, and even in her own head she couldnāt convince herself that Carmen was wrong.
āLet it happen. You deserve some happiness, Brooke.ā
The van with the air conditioning repair guy pulled into the driveway.
āI gotta go.ā
āI want a kissing update the next time we talk,ā Carmen teased.
āLove you,ā Brooke said with a laugh.
āBack at ya, boo.ā
She hung up.
Her best friend was such a dork.
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About the Title
Title: When It Falls Apart
Author: Catherine Bybee
Release Date: June 21, 2022
Publisher: Montlake
Summary
Brooke Turner has always had a complicated relationship with her father. But when his health takes a turn for the worse, she drops everything to care for him. Heās her dad, after all, and he needs her. What Brooke doesnāt anticipate is the unraveling of her long-term relationship and a cross-country move to San Diegoās Little Italy.
Luca DāAngelo is the oldest of three children and a single father to a young daughter. When his mother rents the top floor of their house to Brooke, heās angry. Who is this beautiful stranger with no ties to the neighborhood? Can she be trusted in such close proximity to his family?
As Luca learns of Brookeās difficult journey with her ailing father, his heart softens. And Brooke, who witnesses Lucaās struggle as a single parent, develops feelings for him, too. But when it all falls apart, will love heal their wounded hearts?
About the Author
New York Times, Wall Street Journal, and USA Today bestselling author Catherine Bybee has written twenty-eight books that have collectively sold more than five million copies and have been translated into more than eighteen languages. Raised in Washington State, Bybee moved to Southern California in the hope of becoming a movie star. After growing bored with waiting tables, she returned to school and became a registered nurse, spending most of her career in urban emergency rooms. She now writes full-time and has penned the Not Quite Series, the Weekday Brides Series, the Most Likely To Series, and the First Wives Series.
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